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Choice Becomes So Natural An Action

Choice Becomes So Natural An Action – Isolated By Choice Becomes So Natural An Action Behavior Systems Are Created With Consequences Accepted As Patterns Of People’s Life.

To chose to be isolated by choice becomes so natural an action that major systems and behavior patterns are created. People, families and communities reap the consequences of what has become accepted community behavior patterns. Associated are other the formation of individual peoples perspectives on life in general.

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Susan Lewis

On the basis that people are pack animals with entrenched behavior and customs Susan Lewis takes you through a scenario that had a major impact on her own life. Thankfully, using this situation as a pinnacle point of change recognition, many lessons learned. There was one solution that jet propelled her through into where she is currently. That pointer is one shared towards the bottom of this post.

Why wait until choice becomes so natural an action?

Knowing when to accommodate the specific enterprise until the choice becomes so natural an action that it is not a choice at all….Without going into lots of fiddly details choices are made. Even inaction is a choice. So too is avoiding the issues and other procrastination methods.

As a member of the SFM community there was an application process. Through that application process the invisible fluid like pieces of information began to take shape. There was so much value seen and experiences in so short a time the choice to invest in herself was always there. Investing in myself to find myself, and continue with a digital education, was such a natural choice things just started to move forward.

Understandably there is a greater value and commitment to providing the best possible education to the members like Susan and everyone here that has kept people here. Plus the 6,000 plus Lynda courses.

These are some of those not so fiddly reasons why people make the choice to become lifetime members at the higher levels.

Choice becomes so natural an action it’s involuntary.

There is a trait in people’s characteristics that has extremes that are introverts and extroverts the choice becomes so natural. An action that once again somewhere in the middle people are still finding that they have tendencies at one end and some at the other. With a whole lot in the rest of the areas between. Take an introvert who has developed a perceived inner strength. That inner strength grows in depth. Then one day something happens and they become the focus of something. Again there is a desire to be that person at all times. Slowly this inner shy person gets hidden away.

There is a reverse of this also. A person who has become strong because there was nowhere else to go. Caring for people over and over again makes a person appear to be strong. Something happens. The world is turned upside down and spins out of control.

While the pieces are sorted out and put back together that person may appear shy and retiring. Alternatively angry and gruff. In extremes the coping mechanisms are either quietly or loudly in your face headstrong. AKA passive or aggressive behavior bringing out many of the autism spectrum traits.

During both these descriptions there is a non-connection between the head [logical thinking] and the heart [ spiritual thinking] otherwise known as Post Traumatic Shock Syndrome.

Combine this with a streak of independence. Read stubborn streak- it’s a closer description of the truth.

Now choice becomes so natural an action.

To reach a point in life where that person realizes that no matter when they are, they are always going around in circles. Knowing what they really want to do is help people. So that they never have to go through what they went through in the entry to the digital world.

For Susan this started in the late 1990’s as the only internet access was through the local library connected to an educational facility.

Put it this way coding was considered not for females. Therefore, what was learned had to be deciphered then translated so it had meaning.

Coming into this community was a huge relief though. Especially as Susan connected to one of the ladies at the support desk [ who happened to code herself]

Through various friendships developed Susan began to reach out. Eventually learning how to ask questions. While others met her half way guiding Susan even further.

Several things have happened in the last month prior to writing this post. The first was asking for help with the Autoresponder. What a mess. The second was the inability to catch up with people she knew.

The third was asking a lady at the Customer Loyalty Team. This lady connected Susan with another lady. An interview to find out what was wanted occurred. Although the lady had not done before what Susan was wanting she wanted to find out how to do this. Which was done according to Susan’s end result guidelines. A terrific job was done.

Results as choice becomes so natural an action.

Neither of them knew there was a couple of steps left out. But more on this later.

The lady had gone away for the weekend. But the end perceived result was achieved.

In Between all this a friend came back and said they would help. Agreeing to this and reaching the lady were two different things though.

Arrh What a mix up was happening. But by this stage Susan was accepting that what she needed and what she wanted were two different things.

What she needed was to get things sorted, to focus and streamline everything she was doing in order to get the cookies flowing by and to do the work required.

The second person knew this. Probably tearing their hair out at Susan’s ‘I want this working 100% attitude’ [also called procrastination]

Its widely known in the affiliate marketing circle “do the work and let the system work for you”.

To make a choice becomes so natural an action.

Over the last few days Susan’s acceptance of what she wants to do and what she needs to do are two different things. Primarily back to front.

That comes of not realizing that you are constantly giving. Not receiving. Not receiving is rude. Rude to both the other people within your life and to what people widely acknowledged as the the Universal Laws and Principles.

It took someone else to reach out, offer help, then cut to the chase and firmly show Susan this. No comment is being made as to why Susan went in thinking to leave a note nearly four hours before an appointment to fix this beforehand. Only to realise things had already changed and no note re save the template positioning was able to be left. The next day to return only to promptly brake something while checking to see if it was true.

Ho Hum. That’s life. Full of change. Susan learned to either continue to fight it or accept it.

Noted when a choice becomes so natural an action

Back to that comment about the giver being the receiver for once. Someone said that to someone else, who passed it on to Susan who agreed with them. Now months later Susan had to work through a loss while accepting that someone’s giving when they knew better what she needed.

When you ask for help let go and accept that help. Let it come in abundance. Add the extra on top, all around and all through.

The strength of a person is in the receiving. Being able to receive and be in a place to demonstrate receiving generously to others.

As you have read Susan had found a group of like minded individuals who have helped and mentored her as she worked her way through the levels, the education, training and challenges.

If you have the need of an online solution, why not give this a shot? It’s extremely livable and by itself is one heck of a start up bundle for family based business communities.

Better yet! Although I have no idea how long this option will be part of  the “Choose and test drive” that’s included in the free 30 day trial! Load the cart and have a go for 30 days. A small price to pay for creating you and your family’s future potential

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What is it about Susan Lewis?Susan’s mission in life is that Autism As A Gift is to be believed past the level of general acceptance. Families in business  wrap around these aspects.  Support the extended family and an intergenerational extended  community within a community is born.

Keeping in mind that a vision is a dream with a date on, high energy release and a load of emotions like  to be ‘joyful’ to be experienced.

Aim not at the surface, but with the knowing that actions hits is all the way through.   In fact you have arrived at the star, landed, the job completed.

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community based family business

Community-based family business face significant impacts from everyday challenges to including ‘like minded family’ into their vision.

Community-based family business face significant impacts should the members work together, know when to run with the gut feelings, how to strategically plan, develop from everyday challenges and include other members of a ‘like minded family’ into their vision.

In this post Susan Lewis steps forward to share what is happening in within her ownfamily as a community based family business begins to get under way moving forward.


Utilize those Community-based family business.members skills.

Seek out various family members with the tendency to be managers, coaches, and head persons  acting together in the community-based family business arena. What ever and whenever someone steps away with a challenge in the attitude happening the business now had a fallback personal plan in action utilizing these peoples talents.

Families are no different to business, school, or even government. Except that there are times where they are able to tap into the hierarchy ties really easily. Usually a blessing.

However, technology today is not what it was yesterday. And definitely is not what it will be tomorrow. How many times has the technological challenge answer been “give it to a younger person.” And you now that when you ask them to show you the “how did you do..” there is that look that follows!

Facilitation helps people to a) come up with a concept. Then they shape the parts of the concept firstly into a vision and secondly into an action plan.


What’s the vision for a Community based family business

The vision now exists for this community family based business. Once a common ‘goal’ the thing itself has expanded rapidly. Now being of such a magnitude that that goal has exploded into lots of smaller objectives. Each objective has multiple facets and within those more actions.
I’ve seen this happen repeatedly as a community developer. Through brainstorming people began to have these brilliant ideas. The trick being to remind people that at this point all that is happening is brainstorming.

Example of a brainstorm was everyone wrote one idea down that fitted in with the reason the gathering was called.
In this case it would be… “help financially support a member of the extended family” This could be for sports or camp activities, medical or health related, or even educational, possibly ongoing work related.

In my family our now eighty-two-year-old mother is still active. Having been teacher and still is a registered nurse she has raised a family of seven children who all fall into the “Youre son / daughter is on the Autism Spectrum category”. No surprises there… except there was a name to the family traits now.

But mum wanted to be employable and employed.  A few years ago there were the markets and festivals to look forward too.  However a health issue chose to make it’s appearance


Reasons why to have a Community based family business

Outside new vague ‘businesses’ took away many of the community based family business identity factors.  The young were showen by the old as the elderly were cared for and past down the traditions.

First there was the fact of ‘”Mum the insurance agencies will not get employers employ you.” Second ” Business want to have underlings who want to do what they are programmed to do!” Third… “Mum how are you going to get there?”

One thing mothers do is continually show their daughters they are in change of their own destiny!


Is you mother actually in control of the Community based family business

Now my mother is after school tutoring a third child who just happens to be suspected of being on the Autism spectrum.

I get to catch up with ‘the adopted family’. The mother of which is a terrific friend [ like a sister but better!]. There is always something happening that draws us further together as business partners.

Slowly an online agency is taking shape. The tools are all online. Time, space and even varying calendar commitments agendas are accommodated all via online tools. For instance in November there is a huge rally as well as four days intensive training and a 2018 Momentum Day to attend.


Who to include in this Community based family business

Again within this agency process peoples individual fields are being sort. feelers are there amongst talented individuals we all know.

In this case a hobbyist  photographer, and someone not scared of talking in front of a camera.  The family ‘camera boffin’.  Plus someone who is terrific at graphics online.

Next another groups of people .. people who love investigations.  Family members with a touch of OCD who leave no stone unturned to get to the best market words, buys, offers, ortools to do the correct poart of the job.

Some are technos [with have coding knowledge], a computer whizz and others love to write.

And of course people who love to cook!  Well someone’s got to feed the creative people of this family when we all get together.


Challenge your own perceptions with a Community based family business

Sounds interesting to you? Come with us as we go through the process of joyfully creating our own ‘community based family business.’ Look for the resources shared made available to you in an email form.
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Building The Family Business

Building The Family Business – Leverage The Strengths Of Family To Face Truly Unique Challenges When Building The Family Business

As  families with the Autistic Spectrum traits in members bond together building the family business generally there are real strengths to bring out and develop. The fact that family owned companies face truly unique challenges just means that they must come together and leverage their strengths. For these families in business to include, develop and lead the rest of the family, generation to generation.

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Susan Lewis

Hello my name is Susan Lewis.  As a member of a rather large generational family there is an life experience in extended structure.  Sometimes frazzled and frayed and other times that common cause brings people together with the family members.  In this post we are looking at what possible  basic impact working together as family, or a family part,  has on the members themselves. Additionally a few ideas on how to make greater use of a couple of individual people’s skills and place these together to achieve a ‘business oneness’ of team spirit.

Building The Family Business

Curiously remember that while building the family business you are already ahead of other small businesses. Besides already having potential incomes supplying loyal family members their needs families have strengths that many businesses train their means teams to copy.

Five of these are plainly :

  • Strengths in family business management.
  • Next is that the tools of “trade’ may already be on “Loan” to the business from someone within the family.
  • The third thing is that when practices are successfully implemented the performance of both individuals and the family are driven higher.
  • Regards to shareholder loyalty, this is now just a monied version of the bonded loyality already in place.
  • Health family relationships gather strength.

Actually there are other special parts to an extended family businesses.


While building the family business build for the strengths.

Look at two of these strengths to use while Building The family business  look for the strengths of members

Firstly, that all ages, emotional and mental capacities are already blended in naturally. All the finicky Autism Spectrum traits that drive outsiders to the family crazy are already just something that is done.  As an example someone fascinated in lines taking photos of buildings with lines, weird angles and a fresh crisp look and feel to them, may naturally just walk into possible clear traffic lanes while there is oncoming traffic and start taking photos.   Other members are ready for this quirk and ‘stand guard.  Or there may be dyslexic people themselves who spot a spelling mistake, grammar incorrect and automatically correct what is written.  While others just love hunting for a particular word or phrase to use within the post. Once a post is published and ready to share what about all the aunties and uncles, grandparents and teens to comment and share the article on social media sites.

Secondly, the young are looked after by the older generations, while the older ones are looked too by the younger generations. Who else has the time to answer the frustions of someone not getting something taught in Kindergarten. That is how to turn on the computer and wifi devices, while swapping this information eaten  over or around a homemade bunch of goodies or sitting in an ice cream parlor!

Include here the different people going to and from and returning back into the fold.

This was loosely how my family grew up. As I write this post my mother is in school at the local libarary… learning how to make flyers. Having recently moved out of her house she “floats among the relatives.” Then when she is ready goes on to another family member.


Inclusion of all when building the family business

Help revolutionize education while building the family business by giving individuals the contemporary skills they need to make a success of bringing their personal vision to the world.  Unlike traditional education, the community offers more than training curriculums.

We give you a variety of mentorship connection with people who have extensive real-world experience in the areas you aspire to – from Q&A webinars, 24/7 Community channels and book recommendations to live events [ momentum days the world over], Masterminds and Coaching 1-2-1’s. And access to over six thousand courses to complete at your own pace.  The list just gets better.

One of my friends was looking for a tutor for a child. Now while mum does the tutoring of one child, two more children also get to have her time.

Four friends also call her their Mum. Three of these friends have had their own mums pass over. Ones mum is between my age and my mothers . It’s kinda like having a big sister as well as another younger sister included.  And My mum having a younger sister in this country.

With the internet my eighty-two year old mum says hello to her relatives all over the world.


One important question when building the family business

Here’s the question: to be actively building the family business do you need to be a hereditary family business. Well the answer is actually ‘no’. Although it does pay for all within the ‘family’ to be on the same wavelength.

To have such a similar vision under the One vision’ that each has a part to play within that one vision.

What do I mean? Some of the personal vison’s are:

  • to have land that people may come to and develop their gifts and talents.
  • One others is to have land big enough to connect people within themselves and nature.
  • Another’s is to be a beef farmer.
  • That the person they love is free to travel and be looked after by their family members when needed.
  • To bringing out the inner child within each of us in the belief that each uses their gifts and talents online so that none is lost.
  • To make markets a way of life

Older members value when building the family business

When mum has the ‘time’ she answers questions for the whole lot of us about people’s value when building the family business.  She’s seen the lot in her life.  From Swamis and Ashrams, to Church picnics. Communities, communes and city life.  Milking cows, and washing out water tanks, right through to helping starving, and neglected children .  India’s streets and in England, Australia and New Zealand. children , welcomes team and other community members, and makes real life statement about what she reads. Plus there is the added bonus of sharing my posts [ love this idea] and making the flyers that I had been putting off doing.

Additionally the dinner is cooked if one of us is busy doing something else. In a way its very like having only one person shop for all in one store while the other is going to the post office, or parking the car!

At the end of this year is the Momentum Day as well as a course I’m attending. Both mum and another member are taking it in turns to feed the animals and house sit. It’s these type of things that a family business micromanages as natural as can be.


Let’s Start Building The Family Business

Besides sounding plausible, interesting and doable how do people like me start building the family business? Answer: surprising to say that people already have started without even knowing. Families are looking inwards for guidance, and assistance.

Guidance on where do you get the tools, community support and technical know-how to share among the family members and their friends. Assistance in working out the common goals, personal visions. Plus how to mesh all these. and other ‘things.’ together.

 

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Benefit of belief knowing it has been done

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Working with Autistic Adults

 


What is it about Susan Lewis?Susan’s mission in life is that Autism As A Gift is to be believed past the level of general acceptance. Families in business  wrap around these aspects.  Support the extended family and an intergenerational extended  community within a community is born.

Keeping in mind that a vision is a dream with a date on, high energy release and a load of emotions like  to be ‘joyful’ to be experienced.

Aim not at the surface, but with the knowing that actions hits is all the way through.   In fact you have arrived at the star, landed, the job completed.

In short : Susan Lewis  enjoys helping you create and develop your online community.

Look for further information about Susan Lewis here.


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