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Give Permission To Love Yourself

The story behind why it is important to Give Permission To Love Yourself

The most important factor in your life is YOU so its up to you to give permission to love yourself !

When people learn from an early age to constantly give  one day a new beginning to alter their self arrives.  That this may take quite a few jump start challenges to get to the point of choosing that new life path just may be a something ‘small’ trigger point.

With an ‘equivalent’ in impact Post Traumatic shock that .  This time though the after effect is a cumulation of many self realisations.  Both timey, small and huge.  All mixed in to together.

The car that turned, then stopped in front of my oncoming car was a life changing addon experience.  In the car with me was my eighty one year old mother who was herself recovering from heart surgery.

Yes Give Permission To Love Yourself

While it is easy to self cover something there is a much more challenging roll when it comes to a family member being reminded to Give Permission To Love Yourself.  A few years earlier we both were at the beach talking way into the morning. Sitting beside the cliff watching the sun go down.  Then saying hello to the morning of my birthday.  The dog had spent an hour eating the wavelets.  Needless to say there we were celebrating the early hours of the morning eating a happy birthday midnight supper with one not to happy dog feeling very sorry for himself.

Between walking from the jetty to the car l stopped.  Horrified. It was a single comment of ” I was taught to serve others.”  So mum had been a servant mind from the age of birth.  Yes the older brother had passed away before her birth.  Yet right until into the eighties mum had never exposed this connection association. Instead mum had repressed her inner child who knew her as a woman light worker [ Healer]. She became a nurse instead of a Doctor.

Give Permission To Love Yourself.

Give Permission To Love Yourself enough to always do the right thing for yourself means you have reached a point in life where you are not giving away your sovereignty,The righteous selfishness may cause a change in the circle of your current influences. That choice Give Permission To Love Yourself may not be respected, loved, acknowledged, like or approved by friends, relatives, organisations and even family.

However, by taking the time to Give Permission To Love Yourself coming through the battles at the other end there is time to love yourself. From that point to really appreciate and truly love life opens up many doors. Energy just seems to flow around. Through and within what ever is happening.

When Give Permission To Love Yourself what happens?

Amazing things happen to Give Permission To Love Yourself. That quick Reflection to check the path behind you gradually looses its hold. Instead of being a servant with no one to serve… and isolating yourself other activities come forward. Mum is now in a painting class. She ride her little Go-Go to the paininting classes. Sell her hand knitted beanies. Mixes with people. ” I am never going to be isolated again” was the statement from yesterday. It took over five years to hear these beautiful words.

For one persons actions in taking a course that hekped them find themselves other magical things happen.

My recommendation is to go through the resources within this link. Make a decission based on your own percieved vision of that future. Although the now circumstances may try to rear their head. What you believe inner most is important will come through.

Complete the modules. I’ll check in with you very soon.

Cheers for now.

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What’s Meant To Happen In Order To Move Forward

Life throws us curve balls and different things are meant to happen in order to to each of us. Gidday, my name is Susan Lewis. One day I finally realised what it meant to be helping people build Autistic Online and Loving it communities.

Susan_Lewis_001a-100x100 Meant To Happen In Order ToBeing on the Autism Spectrum is to say the least “Interesting”.  Being over fifty-five and ion the Autism Spectrum is like adding salt to a wound. knowing this the salt to the wound application sure effect’s the cleansing of an open cut.  One where people know the spectrum  as being largely invisible.  Yet in January 2014 the  verdict was “Susan you are female and over fifty”  These two things that I will not change were considered obstacles.

At that point there are two steps..  Break down and cry [ Not an option].  So now it meant find out what else [ other than scrubbing toilets] is out there.

So to was making a video!  Well this was one of the first slice and dice attempts.  New creative horizons were everywhere.

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Other challenges such as who was I now.  The children had grown up and moved away.  Oh I have there dogs and cats for company.  The fridge, toilet paper and other grocery shopping actually stayed within the house.  The petrol stayed in the car. And the car stayed in the driveway.  The divorce quietly finalized. Something was needed to fill in the “empty nest syndrome”.

Meant To Happen In Order To Find Yourself

Clear out the junk while you learn to work faster was meant to happen.  In order to find somewhere online it included open your email. That is when the invitation came through the email.

Mind you I then had to look through emails while clearing out rooms, cupboards and a shed full to overbrinning with stuff.  The children got their personal stuff.  The neighbourhood had fun emptying the boxes placed outside on the nature strip. I got to rearrange the house… several times since then. Each time shedding and biffing what now is junk from the past.

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As life became less cluttered there was less to clean.  Less to clean meant more time to pick up a hobby.  The hobbies too had gone out as people wanted the materials, tools and bits.  Kinda take one take the lot. Removing the rest of the books is the next task

Progress Is Meant To Happen In Order.  It is?

The western world is strange. Those with life experiences are no longer required.  Having learned enough online I wanted to spend more time online.  There was a need to develop a brand that the world wants to know about.
All I had to do was find what that brand was within me.  Then find a place that would work with you to define the principles. Translate them into a visual representation which would become a unique, authentic digital brand presence.  I found that place.  However there were other things to work on.

SusanLewisandLogo Meant To Happen In Order To  Underlying the empty nest syndrome was an added thing.  A brain injury from 1991 when a truck impacted through the vehicle let an invisible imprint.  One where there was a deep memory loss. So the need to write and to communicate came to the forefront. This has been achieved now.

Right here, right now as this post is written I wonder about you.  Have you find yourself in a similar situation? If so write a small note to me simply because I would love to help you through with a few resources that definitely helped me work smarter.  Thankfully I believe now that this process was meant to happen in order for us older ones to have the life that we want to create.