Close the gap

So many people are jumping on board the Autism boat that the figurative boat itself looks like it is imploding. With the aim to close the gap between those within the Autism Spectrum and the atypical person.

   Which makes sense. People such as Bill Gates and Richard Branson, have told their story years ago. The difference between you, me and those who have had the drive, focus and attention they so rightly  recognise as being theirs is just that. A mindset that focuses on their inner need first. Everything else then revolves around this need.  Therefore that is what they are getting. They live it, breath it and define it again and again. But you define yours too you say. That may be true within its self except for one thing. Maybe two. People who live their dream look back and know they were carried through from creating a circle of influence around them reflective of what it is they knew they were achieving. Then they set about to close the gap between their now and their “I have this situation.” under control attitude.Everything else is a want.  Wants are strategies created in order to achieve their singular few needs. Those needs complete their dream.  These wants are the are called stepping stones as what they want is

Everything else is a want.  Wants are strategies created in order to achieve their singular few needs. Those needs complete their dream.  These wants are the are called stepping stones as what they want is organised into doable actions that take then out of a comfort zone and into another level. The needs are the focus objectives. The dream is alive even before having sorted out the other parts.

Sometimes completing only one stepping stone at a time.  Other times as they complete on learning phase completely they smash that stepping stone into pieces.

One decade or two. The effort, word, blood sweat and swears carried them through. That primary focus was there all the time.

ALLOWING someone else to close the gap in your belief system

Throughout people’s lives, there are many influences. Every single person that I know has been raised with something they consider as a challenge to them during their childhood. Adulthood is nothing different. The sense of style may replicate those around you.  Yet you yearn for a different comfort zone within your dress type. Maybe wanting a different body style or clothing cloth. Rushing home just to change from a synthetic into nothing more than a silk or cotton throw on.
What would happen if your boss came along tomorrow and insisted you did something you know is not only against the law. But should you do this thing then that boss will simply say “I Know Nothin.” This happened to me in different scenarios. Each time the  Autism traits took over. Then a meltdown occurred.  Believe me, after a few you start to make a connection. It’s up to you now to close the gap.

Look into building an alternative digital lifestyle and close the gap
One and a half generations since finding blog the connections between writing posts online and building an alternative digital lifestyle still had not connected. http://susanlewismarketing.com/alternative-digital-lifestyle/  tidy URL this . The soon to released Autism As A Gift Campaign is now here. [1st Jan 2016]

Should you want more information on how to come into the fluid online parenting systems the reach out to me through susanlewis@autismasagift.com. In fact why not just close the gap between your needs and the bosses wants. Be proactive and let him have the link after you have experienced it firsthand first!

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