Monthly Archives: March 2016

Why Is Living In A tree Similar To Overcoming Fear

Freedom to overcome fear

Freedom to be me! Just to be me!  Ever thought this way.  Then felt the doors close in and around you?
One difference between animals and humans is is the ability to think outside the box.  Add to this the reasoning behind the use of technology. Sometimes that technology allows us to have a different type of freedom.  A freedom of choice.
With the #digitallifestyle available today, many of the world’s people have fought hard to have gained the freedom to have access to the internet in some way.  Reaching out to find a group of people with similar interests as yourself is an everyday thing to many of today’s generations. Or is it?
 One primary thing that keeps people from taking an idea through to a passion and on into a viable business should they want to do so is F.E.A.R.  Simple : “a learned fear of fear that may put a hold to overcoming fear.”
 Are those fears making us to comfortable within the familiarity of life? It takes guts to branch out into different activities.  Taking a to thought through to a viable business venture takes time.  There will be doubts and fears along the way.   How much better would it be to be within a large international community that supports people, shows and trains them.  Allows the people within to make mistakes of their own choosing and yet still accepts the member’s to be one more valued unique individual within the circle of influence there?

Australia is like the internet when compared to overcoming fear.

 The internet has rabbit warrens [ tunnels].

  Checking out the scenery and ready to refresh themselves with the new growth.
That is the similarity with redoing the first four modules of the DEA’s complementary free training. In this case, this refreshing is a recharge the batteries time. With a makeover, the idea is to know what new members are being asked to do. The whole setup is  tested for user friendliness.
Places like the community groups… 90 day  Challenge Group remain a place to choose  to allow yourself to overcome fear of gaining a new skill. Meanwhile having the added benefit for some in that these challenges help extend what people think they are capable of. For some, they may earn and learn on the go. many times the reasons has been that the list of people who follow them has already been established.
Read this Special Report with the Fasted way to grow yourself the list you need to start YOUR digital life as it is the top one I have found. TRY To Overcoming Fear
Special Report for a way to grow yourself the list as a start to  YOUR digital life
For others, it’s a case of know then branch out into gaining more knowledge, education and trust in themselves before they will try something else out.  This process you are introduced to in the Pretraining modules  Once you have checked the resources videos series first. Many questions were answered there for me.And many more after the second module was started.
Having a community within a larger community where you can make yourself at home within while being shown and then encouraged to add to what you already have is a’ hands on’ method of training. Like the Koala climbing through the tree branches one branch at a time. Then one day leaving that tree and going to another with confidence.

You just want to learn what you’re actually capable of. Knowing that it takes a lot of audacity to be capable of change, to brake out of your comfort zone. And through the challenges be inspired, creative, productive and slightly uneasy at times. You may discover that you want a new circle of influence for yourself.
Here's to overcoming fear.

 If you feel like I do then let me help you

> > Uncover a new ‘you’ in the making NOW < <

to overcome fear
 Scroll Upwards to the top:  to overcoming fear 

is pretty awesome.

What is the set up of the SFM and DEA community?

One that has is one that freely promotes the sharing of knowledge, skills and trainings. Variables such as envy of someone else having a position, ability or attribute are basically gone. Especially since all  members are  benefitting  from someone else’s skill, knowledge, and active working talents. Actually the community is pretty awesome. One of these groups is the Twitter, Plurk and other microblogging platforms.
You know what the feeling is terrific when someone you have shown how to do something with sends you a thank you. .
Having a community within a larger community where you can make yourself at home within while being shown and then encouraged to add to what you already have is a hands on method of training. Like the Koala climbing through the tree branches one branch at a time. Then one day leaving that tree and going to another with confidence.

it’s small things

When people get familiar with something they tend to go back. Unconsciously it’s the small things that people will remember.  A rodent in a candy store would not go down very well.

What people do and how they act may seem to one person  a huge favour.  To another an every day even. This information is carried through and is seen into so many things that customers reaction in the real life. A similar process of familiarity happens within people’s  circle of influence.  Be it the sporting community, family, education level or the type of work you do these are communities.

Chopping and changing the storefront layout word relate to refurbishing. People notice the smallest of things.  Such as a comma in the wrong place or a capital not there. One autistic trait I have is dyslexia.  It took me 54 years of my life to be able to spell sincerely. As in like at the bottom of letters.

People ask “Have you made any money yet?” The answer currently is no.  others have.  That is great for them.  WhatI have done is helped to make the world a more beautiful place with improved grammar and spelling. A friend saw my struggles. Listened and gave me the Grammarly link. And now you have that link as well.

The Six Figure Mentors BootCamp opened my eyes a little.  Going through the modules though now they were an eye opener.  There I was confronted with having to plan out my next ten years.  Okay they only wanted a 3 year plan.  Thing is mine would not fit into three years.  So A 10 year plan was created.  Once this was related to things such as planning out camps for the Girl Guide activities the concept became familiar and doable as it had been done before. Part of that 10 year plan was writing a blog, developing the campaigns. The first one was the smile campaign.  The next was the ‘Autism as a gift one’. These are yearly and repeatable.

And together they need good grammar included as well as proofreading the posts.  Simple things that most people can do and that often tripped me up.

Unless you have made a quality impact they may not come back after the impulsive sale and they disappear into the horizon.

Smile! You may have noticed that it’s the small things people overlook and yet tend to remember.

It’s small things done with great love that move the world.

learned in one sphere

learned in one sphere

What is learned in one sphere is there forever

Information is carried through and is seen into so many things that customers reacttoo in the real life. A person can go into a large supermarket just for milk. They know where the milk is and yet they veer off to the left through, past the fresh made cakes, the dairy

and hot chicken, Past the meats and are channelled back through the smaller isles area. There are so many subliminal messages such as ‘space for farm and wilderness areas’ a buyer needs to go past of they are to get to the needed writing pens. The item that they entered the shop for in the first place. Usually The pens and other stationery are situated right close to the snack foods. You can see the connection now? The subliminal placement of the snack food next to the ‘studious pen’ will forever connect the two together.

A person may carry this further now into taking an idea from the drawing board to the get going with it steps. What you present needs to call to your customers. Touch some special place within them, create a memorable connection from the need they have through to you as the person within this world who can assist them. Either now or when they have got to know you a bit longer. People are aware that there are effectively you have two consumers. One whose problem is solved with this ‘product”. A two second point of sale. Unless you have made a quality impact they may not come back after the impulsive sale and they disappear into the horizon.

Smile! You may have noticed that it is the small things

Small Things People Overlook

Viewing the big picture allows for the small things people overlook to just be missed.  Relegated to the “I’ll do that another day” mindset..  With sales there are two people the sales person ‘sells’ too .  Themselves and the people who come to see them.

Be authentic simply because you are not bluffing it. The internet has created a trust me I’m right culture that has people needing to know you are not bluffing it.  Simply put find your authenticity  then speak through the authenticity.  Very important and definitely necessary with sales based information.

The second form of sales actually comes about after some time has past. Gaining someone’s trust is a marvellous feeling. Most often taking awhile to do.  Repeat times of just being in the consumer’s eye may at first seem like a “no sales zone”.  To the point that many people would believe little of significance is happening.. However the establishment of a friendship basis holds importance.  To your clients, consumers, superiors and colleagues the development of this trust platform  is like a deep foundation being laid. Watch how people respond the quiet little worker who has been there years.  The one whose knowledge of what people need is intuitive and upskilled through e-learning.   Nothing much is said other than courtesies and respect.  When  that college says ‘a good idea’  ‘a great product’ “this is something that you can rely on”  a sale is made.  Even a quiet nod of affirmation above the head of the new salesperson.

Two things to remember that focus and the small things people overlook are 1) first impressions do count.  2) people respond to your inner self.

When starting to sell balloons on and through markets and festivals the old lady in the store where I purchased my first bag of balloons summed it up like this… “Here dear, this one’s on the house. Go to your market and inflate every single one of them. Then come back and you always buy one bag extra for the display” . Essentially the same advice from the toyshop man who showed  how to set up an eye catching display. One that has the feeling of a solid basis where people can come back too at a later date.  Along with depth, knowledge behind to products and once again trust.

It only took a few minutes of inflation to realise the balloon lady was right. Being so busy inflating these balloons for the pleasure of the crowd there was happiness in the air.  People were attracted to that energy. Other stalls had lots of commercial flash pizzazz and razzz-a-matazz.  Building  a sense of trust with the presentation of their wears.  The product range and the people behind the products.

Finding that these trust factors were established, alive and supported online has been a life changer that started with  watching these videos. Choosing to move forward in through the modules.

People get real energy though how you give of yourself. Do not be shy. Show the world is at your fingertips because it is and you are not bluffing it  Make a life of your own making.

Some of the people I know have utilized establishing trust factors.  Reaching the lifestyle they desired. Some quickly and others slowly. Others have taken to another digital lifestyle approach.

Whichever way has been chosen to move them forward the ability to know the tools used is huge. Gaining the basic steps leading towards a knowledge basis for functioning tools builds the trust a person has within themselves. Each step building one upon the other. tried, true, inbuilt trust factors that work are what Affiliate marketers need to use as a starting point towards building that desired lifestyle.

One of the keys to moving forward comes under the tag Trust Factors. Often one of the small things people overlook. When you are looking for solutions trust the emails we will send out to you.

Back to the top:  Small Things People Overlook

a dam running over

Mind blockages to learning,  once cleared, may become like a dam running over its banks. So here is the cruncher that has been learned when you are getting anything ready to take your goods to market.

There needs to be a guarantee with the ‘goods’.  Over and above the product guarantee there is an intagiable “goods” guarantee.  You, the organisation, business and goods, products or survices need that guarantee behind them.

A stray kitten resting on my shoulder during the night. Oh to be able to have done something sooner.
A stray kitten resting on my shoulder during the night.

Support in the field work for on location demostratons or shelf life products and survices necessates forethought and presentation.

Exclaiming loudly ” Oh to be able to have done something sooner” should things go bottom up is a crazy actionplan yet how many people seem to come to this very point and are left standing.  Believing the things they are observing and hearing to be true.  Like a dam running over thoughts just crowd into the head.  None of them pleasant.

STOP RIGHT HERE.  Do not proceed down that path.  What have you learned from what has happened.  Make a list, a pen to paper list, of the goods and not so good things that have brought this situation to this place and point in time.

Now look at that list again.  One column is bound to be bigger than the other.  Take note of the ratio of the two lists.

Draw a line under both ends of the columns.

Turn the paper upside down so that you see the lists but to read them you would have to be standing on your head maybe.

The idea is now to equal the columns points.  If the ratio was 10 to 1,  now you want the ratio to be 1 to 11.  The objective is two fold. “50 / 50 plus 1″.That is one more good thing has come forward than the negative thing.  Now add another.  And another.  Yes look for even the smallest positive outcome.

On closer inspection there will be a dam runnning over of possitives.  Maybe not many -yet.   But with a few, there will be room for a few more.

Gratitude for the little things that both help you keep afloat mentally and put you in a riptide of gratitude are things to tentively smile about.  And quietly , between you and me you know that one smile makes two.

Right there and then a ‘Korus’ moment did happen.  That was ‘The Shift’ waiting to happen. A opening up of a mind blockage.

Taking this ‘Korus’ life changing moment on needs bravery. Perseverance and a willingness to literally done a vest and climb out of the water and on board a life boat with a community of people who are heading through into their future.  And if you cannot yet paddle you will be learning fast as the safety of teamwork will come through.  However the choice is yours.  As with anyone standing on the sidelines where water is concerned.   When you find the right life jacket  find out if you can, and do like the water.

Check out the current flow and make sure you too are going in the right direction as the rest of us.  We’re moving forward, preparing for what we will be doing with  an alternative digital lifestyle.

Those things that got you to this point in time, and here with us, were there for a reason.  That reason was to get you prepared for all the tools, training, community and coaching that is in here.

Are you confident now to be an entreprenior?

>  > Seize the opportunity now <  <

Open the banner below

My Banner
 

Back to the top:  A Dam Running Over

my sense of self

Self-sufficiency is a funny term when exploring your “my sense of self.”

For many people, they think of survival on a farm let, in business, lost on an island, or being self-funded. These are physical places or assets. When it comes to the uncharted territory of exploring the ‘sense of self’ only the brave, the foolish or the inquisitive are crazy enough to tackle this aspect of a person life. Their own.

Successful people know who they are, where they are going and what they will do when they arrive at the first landing place. People look at these people and wonder why its as though the key to the their-treasure chest has worked… so why not their own one working for them. And slowly probably 99% or people just give up.

Go back to the things they were doing before, how they were piecemeal and half-heartedly doing things before. Like an unhappy puppet on the sting.  Days those it

In today’s world of IoT [ Internet of things] it is the puppet master who is pulling the puppets strings. The thing is, once the blindfold goes back on the puppet it maybe harder to remove a second and third time. When you are blindfolded, choosing not to see what is occurring, is it too late to leave the puppet master with the blindfold and a few strings?

To go boldly where no other person has been before. Into your future. Discover who you actually are, where you need to be and what you, as a person of worth can give back to the community.

One community may have opened your mind up to gardening and growing of vegetables and herbs. Another, to the care and leadership skills beeing passed on. While somewhere else another to the re-education for Gaining of skill sets.  Or a better JOB.  [aka Just Over Broke]

By the time all this is achieved the paying back of Government sponsored Student loan through going to work, tends to swallow up more of the wages than was anticipated and for longer than you thought possible.

There are four ways that are convenient and efficient for all involved when you need an out of the student loan situation. The first discover another way forward. The second is to die [ not a great option ]. And the third escape from the country never to return. The fourth to reinvent the wheel. Run a side business that slowly becomes a JOB in disguise. But hey pass enough turn over and the loans that are now business related may become a tax deduction [possibly].

The first and fourth ones have been experiences of mine. The second has occurred – without the loans to pay back, though. The second one brought with it a major set of disconnect into exploring a sense of self, all by itself.  Over and over until something would give and the mind allowed the blockage it of things through.  Usually resulting in high alerts for meltdowns or major overloads that resulted in sleep attacks.

Nothing was normal.  As it was nor would it ever be again.  What was was not longer? And in reality, all it took was a mear fraction of a second to occur.In reality, the truck impacted the van.The light ball was intense. And that was where I stayed for nearly twenty years.

This, of course, brought about all sorts of ‘complications and challenges. The Autism came out in full force.  What before were oddities of behaviour … controlled were wave after wave crashing on some shore in the distance.  A tsunami  kaleidoscope of happenings..-

Read on to find out why or simply scroll down to… to find out why and what happened with the sense of self-exploration while accepting the new journies path. When you do continue to read the truth as it happened. It’s right there in front of you. These things happen to people.  Normal people. Or even people that anger that someone with some unknown ‘force’ behind them. Believe or not that is your choice.

The other choice is to think of this as a fairytale or horror movie that pa=layed out with a cast of innocents within some far off land.  Nothing there seems real except that there was a loss.  OA loss primarily of reality. No one should have to survive through a loss of memory and have no a soul know.  Not even yourself.

But just in case I will leave you these notes.  Should it happen or be happening to you know that you too can survive.,  Can and can be proactive in your survival procedures.  What you want to be happening is this to be someone else’s life.  You do but wish it ion anyone else.  When that want becomes a need, then things become slowly different  The need to go exploring your own ‘sense of self’ takes over.  Your mind may still be in lockdown mode.  The inner child was escaping every so often. Coming back to feed titbits of jumbled information back in through the crakes where the mid brain, left and right side of the brain are still unable to find escape. The survival part of the brain is in control and as its the primary brain the force that medulla oblongata =holds over the human today’s brain is terrific.

When your inner child has the support structure of a community somewhere something begins to happen that changes the changes already creeping into life.

The process of change began before I joined this company and was introduced to the private community behind the name. What triggered a major bolt lighting change in my life was basically out of my control. No! I was not driving the truck that impacted on the vehicle I was in. What I do know is that I did control the positioning and the speed [ all 2 to 3 km of it] that the vehicle I was driving was travelling at.

That being stated I was in charge of the children who were in my care after that. Stated like this as where there was work the husband had to follow. Looking back I now understand what acceptance of passive skills and knowledge is all about. I recognise the courage and acceptance it took for our oldest daughter who, at seven, became the one left behind as a major career.  I simply dod not know until she was talking to her brother that I was constantly falling asleep.  And she did not know that this was important information to share.  You see before we left Burwood in Melbourne my nursing times were usually night duties.  We lived in a large two family house with my mother and siblings. Previously there was always someone there. That thing had changed now no one knew, and therefore this could not be corrected.  Actually, Twenty-five hears later [ like right now] I have just connected these two concepts together.

 

There was a thing called ‘time’?  There were two times.  You got up, and you went to bed.  In between, there was food on demand time.

And to this day this acknowledgement still rips my heart to shreds. There is no way a person can repay a child the loss of child’s innocence of play within life.  Playing house should be with dolls, or just friends, not a real live adult person and two or three siblings.

The loss of security of knowing there is someone else there to lean on. In my own case, my body was there. Up, extremely bruised for eight weeks plus as the bone bruising came out, but walking. Verbalising, showing her home schooling. Where in fact it was myself that needed the assistance and relearning skills. However this was not recognised and somehow we, as a family of then five [ six by the end if that year] carried on in the isolated Victorian Alps as best we could.

Years later when I realised this was what had happened, I had already tried to give back what was missing from her life.  The lesson learned was you cannot give back that that has been given away, or taken.  And that in itself is probably why for just under twenty years I over gave of myself at the detriment of my own family unit.  Had there been someone with knowledge to assist and guide then maybe things could have been different.

And so what was started in teaching our children to be independent carried on. The lessons that as parents we learned is what you teach you will sow.

There was not distorted the sense of self as there simply was no self. There was no connection with anything to identify. That connection occurred in October 2014 when having taken a photo of self by mistake I recognised the face as being the person I kept seeing with me in the photos during Girl Guide Activities, The windows and sometimes a mirror. I avoided mirrors as the last thing I did just before the impact was to chack in the rear vision mirror on the two boys sitting in the back seat.  Another connection there just happened.

This person always was getting older and followed me like a shadow. Remember there was no self. My self that I recognised was the same person who was sitting behind the steering wheel at the moment the truck impacted. Now to people who have experienced Autistic overload this was then an ongoing alert trip switch. As a coping mechanism back to sleep my body would go.

Why did I take the photo? While doing the Gold DEA training the need for a photo was explained. Right now be recognised by myself.

It was also at this time that as a side relief from these intense self-discoveries the Graphix Creator came out. And that tool is cool. Hours later surfacing totally distracted would happen. A new thing discovered and did able. Meanwhile in the back ground acceptance of that ‘person’ was taking place.
Assisted very thoroughly by the DEA Platinum Incubator workshop. While that discovery of who you are to enable your own personal Brand to be sorted out took time, my mind was grappling with the stranger trying to get to know my ME. When in fact, we were one and the same, just to disjoined parts of the same life. One pre-1991 and the other from Feb 2nd, 1991 to which ever time the emergence could occur.

It did not occur. Instead one of the co-founders of this company made a comment about something else on the Founders Call Webinar. That something else was about how his and the other co-funders companies effectively merged while still retaining their identity. This was becoming something totally exciting and new. That’s when the realisation occurred.

Rather than struggle and tame why not just let things be and accept that nothing would ever be the same.

Time had effectively, and efficient snuck in and moved everything on. A light bulb moment. And more overlaid. Meltdowns were different once again. There were no comfort zone boundaries. There were no boundaries… other than the junk that had gathered around me.

People need a physical clean out sometimes. That was one big wake up call. Mind you moving the junk out too strategic planning and the house was am the organised mess while sorting began. Umm, the garden had lots of recycling paper etc. within it. The front porch had rubbish bins waiting to be fulled. And filled they were.  Plus with permission the neighbour’s ones as well.

As more and more physical things went the mental rubbish was able to be tackled. I’m not saying this was easy. It hurt. Headaches, loss of things from the past. Acceptance that thing were changing. Yip.

Change. A big OH BOY moment for many on the Autism Spectrum. Rooms and then furniture in the rooms were rearranged [ in amongst the mess of sorting and resorting]. And furniture was given away.

Now change both physical and mental were becoming familiar. Unknowingly assisted through the community challengers. The blogging challenge, video challenge, 90-day challenges… and more personal family, health and welfare challengers. And the funny thing is I copped. Supported more so by this online community than ever I thought possible. One thing that is noted was the circle of influence had changed. People known before were moving on as my ME was finding itself no longer lost.

Maybe the caterpillar’s chrysalis was finally being created. And to this day the waiting for what was going to emerge and gently stretch her wings has come forth. What has been experienced and learned from over life is that with every sunset there is a new day following.

Exploring my sense of self-leads to three choices. Combining my sense of self with what social worth is possible. The first outcome could be just seeing exiting places that are on my bucket list. The second may be visiting a narrowed down bucket list to just exploring this great big continent called Australia. The third viewing the world from the hand to mouth existence within the vegetable patch no longer gives great satisfaction. While the back yard fences represent the world out there that is still there calling.

Nothing in those three things seems to fit now. However, with this community behind, around and in front of its member’s many exciting things are there. Will the flight include the world trips to experience community development programmes? Visiting such places where orphanages and other such places where lost peoples go for direction within their life. Will the directions involve creating and sharing programmes for re-education, upskilling, training? Both online procedures and offline into their real lives.

Invitation to platinum digital workshop brought out my sense of selfAnd back we are at the dream that was found when the first three of the five [ now four] modules were accomplished.

 

So much so that without the assistance of this wonderful community I can honestly state this

susanlewisrecommends.com/DEA-Platinium.

 

about providing value

Affiliate marketing is all about proving value. You create that value, and you engage your audience. They in turn, want to know you, deal with you. Depending on how your sales funnel is set up, their needs and wants that are met may eventually turn into sales for you. Works well, in theory, right. However, there is a lot of reliance on autoresponders. Auto responders are effectively just another computer. What goes in is what is actioned.

Every good autoresponder has an internal system where the user [ you] may replace the coded information of who ‘owns the product you are sharing’ with your audience. Effectively you take action to place your name in the Global Text Snippets area rather than the companies and their owners names.

Once this is effectively done, you are now generating sales in your own name. Please name sure the name you are using is the username you’re registered with the company in.

When I first started with the Six Figure Mentors, often it was about providing value that was mentioned. What was social value.  Resources that people may or may not want did not make sense to me. As time went by  that allowed several meltdowns and near Autistic overloads to occur. Back into learning mode  would I go.  This mode was what kept me there.  There was so much to absorb, to see and to play with [ learn from and with].  Eventually being able to see how both the Six Figure Mentors went about proving value the pieces started to form invisible jigsaw puzzles that had flashes of color within them. One simple thing having the list building report information and building that system up sure has been powerful.

The training was the same.  All aspects of the training was the same.  Even if people only got as far as the first one or two module parts of the BootCamp there were knowledge resources within that.

All this has grown exponentially as more people write about the apps and tools in the forum.  Through the challenges and within the micro-learning or the full on  level structured course work.

However I simply did not make the connection between what I was being informed of during training, webinars and the Marketing 101 weekly series of training by Guy and Illan Dream. Two brother gurus that the Six Figure Mentors co-founders have engaged over the last few years on a weekly basis. They are funny, serious, laugh well and smile beautifully. Also current, up to date and willing to share their views and true information to those willing to implement all of it and more.

Since communication online is important is many different was from real life situations learning the ‘about social worth ‘ was critical.  And I am glad that my first attempts are not in the autoresponder for all to see.

What has proved so powerful were the people behind the scenes.  Knowing there was something out of line and not knowing what it is has been extremely dysfunctional.people with persuasive personality disorders need the truth. The truth has very little grey area within it.  From that point things can become stabilized.  The biggest thing about this company ‘it’s all about social value ‘ stance is being able to accept the truth.  My writing was terrible. First the spelling was sorted out.  Grammarly helped there.  An application that I went pro with and that had so much value I did not want to be without it.  And one I share regularly.

The second is that slowly the confidence to write and then tho share around through the internet the Aweber autoresponders messages, broadcasts and campaign created by me.  You know it does feel great to be able to have relearned the things needed just to get to this point.  The goal is now to  intensely engage the subscribers.

Join in on the secret of finding out how to have those subscribers on your list first.

 

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...