Monthly Archives: January 2016

dyslexic has

Being dyslexic has brought forward some challengers. Having a friend share with me the Grammarly ap helped. When I saw what was in that application going babansas was easily to achieve. I purchased a pro version on the spot. That purchase save me wastage of time management opportunity. Over all yes there are millions of people all over the world who pop over to Grammarly and take advantage of the everyday one as a free one. This I truely thought of doing as well.

Then I weighted the fact that the inconvenience of the dyslexia had broght for me over the last fifty-five years. Checked the bank account, gritted my teeth. And thought “WoW the most productive and best-used thing every brought for my birthday’ is using this app. And hay love the end effect as this has meant a sense of freedom. A nearly unsurpassed, unequalled freedom.

Great Discord

When there is a great discord within one area of your life, other things become affected. How can you be like a walking zombie and look after other people’s children? Drive a car or operate other big forms of machinery.

Even being affected by the closeness of the external problems both during and after the huge Black Friday fire time that raged over Eastern Victoria in 2009. [Australia]

 

Another area that did have massive discord within was a working situation.

 

Mental health – post traumatic shock syndrome

 

I mentioned before about finding something creative to fo that filled my unspoken requirement needs. Welcome to my very first PDF. This is why I consider Autism as a gift. Once you being to make progress past the factors that cause the ‘Dis-ease’ of the mind or physical things that place you into stress.. the things you thought were nothing in the past. That since you can do them everyone else can too. Well, the news is that in part one of the things that employers are looking out for is your ability to tune out and focus. For this they will pay yu a wage.
http://smartmedialibrary.com/images/cve4me/7rdq_cardstowardsautismasagiftno1ofseries.pdf

Bullying is out

Bullying is out in the open. Yet people with Autism are being channeled through into giving their gifts and talents over for a funded workplace environment.
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In Australia, employers have the ability to go to Center Link. Become accredited work places. These businesses then go through an agency to have people funneled through their workplaces. Strangely enough, the people not familiar with this devastating process suddenly find themselves in the downside of centerline. Why. Because one day this work has finished. Then that person is told “thank you. Your presence is no longer required.”

On the flip side, there are only a few days to inform Centrelink of being fired. And you must fo this before the employer does this.

Its a first in first response basis. What is not widely known is the fact that placed in writing your story handled to Center link must go on that employer’s records. Was informed that there is four strikes and your out of the system for these employers.

Something else to ponder about. People in this ‘Your fired’ situation do not realise just how much power they actually have. Especially during the first three months. Bulling is not tolerated in the workplace. Not from workers, yourself when you retaliate nor from customers. AND not from management. One form of bulling is not meeting the work safety requirements and yet demanding you work that piece of equipment or not come in for the shift. Mean while the employer contacts the work placement area. Tell other members on staff that you are a trouble maker and lets them gang up on you. You either love, But your lip and keep quiet and work with the faulty, or undersupplied, equipment. Mind you if when something happens of course, it’s your fault. Usually, it is in a legal sense as well.

This I found out when I walked away from driving a local firms taxi. Thinking that I had to wait three months, I waited things out. Near ran out of food. Relied on some handouts and the well stocked vegetable garden towards the end of that time.

Had I known to go into Centrelink and report what was happening, which I did when I finally went to Centrelink, they would have been able to assist me in some way. Like maybe a temprary cash flow while things were being sorted out.

How the systematic bullying over the 12 years there was really flaring up the Autism, then things may, just may, have been different. Just maybe I would not have been sleeping through the next six months of my life. That is once I stopped waking up thinking I heard the radio ring. Even the tick tock clock at the other end of the house was thown out in the end. I could hear it ticking in my head. Light sensativites became a nightmare.

When there is discord this great within your life other things become affected. How can you be like a walking zombie and look after other people’s children. Thankfully that too was having external problems after a huge Black Friday fire time that raged over eastern Victoria in 2009.

Now after just over three years since walking away from the taxi base -things some things have finally begun to settle down.

Massive discord

Another area that did have massive discord within was a working situation. Now after just over three years since walking away from the taxi base -things. Some things, have finally begun to settle down.

In that time though I found a place that I could be creative. Without the mess. There was enough clutter here in the physical spaces, let alone in my mind. No more mess was needed. What was needed was a change of pace, place, and mindset.  As I had no money to move and no energy to pack the place this meant staying too and changing things around.  The office space was altered over ten times within the three years. There are photos taken to prove this transition as well. Now the water paints, the paint brushes, and other art things are in the old caravan.

Many things from the closure of the voluntary children’s area were dumped in my lounge room, dining room and external sheds. And the caravan. These were leftovers from that stuff that went into the opportunity shops. Hay! We filled so many trailers that went to the dump. That cost us. Then the voluntary goods bins were taken away. That left the place where I ‘slept’ during the on-call working hours!

The mental clutter began to sport itself gradually out over time. With help from people online. Being a person active within the physical community was a fearful experience. Noises, sounds, smells, and just people had me closing off just for protection. If I had continued to push myself out there, medications would have been required. Now that was not going to happen… Many people on the Autism spectrum will know what it is like to get to this point of overload. Yet they are at a point where to af=dmit that this is what it is like is more frightening than not speaking about it.

Mental Health Discord

My situation was assisted in that I was still going through Post Traumatic Shock Syndrome as well. Before 1991, all I had to deal with was that in some things I was either a little weird or just chose not to fit in. To remove myself from the situations and find something more interesting to do. Something that did not cause the quiet unfelt at that moment pain.

if your boss came

What would happen if your boss came along tomorrow and insisted you did something you know is not only against the law, But should you do this thing then that boss will simply say “I Know Nothin.” This happened to myself in different scenarios. When I was driving taxi cabs the cab was considered unsafe. I gave up the shift. And suddenly found that there was no work for over three weeks. Considering that was my only income it hurt financially. And I really began to despise myself for being in that hand to mouth begging situation.
Another was while retraining in a different country nursing system. Arriving in an accredited Aged care facility and not having enough gloves, having to halve blues just to save money. The list goes on.
Speaking out cost me my training. Again the writing was on the wall. So I fixed the situation as speaking out did not stop there.

Again the writing was on the wall. So I fixed the situation as speaking out did not stop there.
What I was not aware of was the Narcissism was in full uproar. How dare people do this to not only their workers. But also to the people who are in a situation of trust. Narcissism wants you to be effective and efficient while abiding to your sense of rights and ethics. Go against it and the stress and anxiety from hiding from it begins to eat away inside. Placing you at “dis-ease” with yourself. Then the rest of the Autism traits take over. Now a meltdown occurs. It’s up to you now to close the gap.

geographical freedom

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With the Six Figure Mentors Bootcamp training, becoming an affiliate and reaching out for a financial and geographical freedom has been a steady up hill and down dale road to journey upon.  Sometimes  wondering if the map was the right one and the compass was working there have been so many changes.

Sometimes I rally begin to wonder what challenge is just hiding around the corner. Then I remember “Energy Flows where the attention Goes” That was from Jay Kubassek, a co-founder of The Six Figure Mentors and a leading light of this private invitation only community.

 Today was one of ‘those’ days.

Yet it was not as bad as  I thought it would be at one frightful stage.  Yes, the computer had a meltdown with the voice and sounds being played.

Yes!  today was all planned out and that plan did not go according to plan!

Knowing that the 90-day challenge is meant to be a video per day all I can say is: So sorry folks this video is one from a few days ago that was not released yet.

This morning when everything crashed here I was just listening to someone’s video where they had had a ‘hat trick’. And just after they spoke about the difference between a ‘belief ‘mode and a ‘know’ mode I knew what it was like to suddenly have no sound coming in.

As a continuance, the next few hours brought forward a friend who assisted in the time of need. Lesson of the day. Crash and think all things are possible …cause they are. Know it is time to take a deep breath. Remember your dream. Face that dream and know, just know, that is what you are going to have. Feel it as it is as real as you feel.

Last year at a friends I spoke about 1 subset of an overall dream that got them thinking. They altered the way they spent, thought and lived. This year the money they saved has gone into replacing things. However their dream is once again on track.That was the man who came and fixed my computer.

Three things… the first was I had not realised I had had a dream. It was a wish. There is a big difference between the two.  This dream has a knowledge of completion.  You already know that is what you will have.    dreams completion

The second is that in order to finish my dream I recognised need to join SFM. That also was just a little BIG step in the right direction.

 

Looking For Answers To You Internet Struggles… I Was!

Third thing: You never know who, how, what, when and why you are in that place at that time. Nor do you know the power of influence your words have on someone else.

Associated to these was the fact that I had to be prepared to challenge myself and then to change.  I will not lie here cause it was not easy morphing into what was the beginning of realising the true potential within myself.  Admittedly the wheel is turning slowly.  And yet this is the most satisfying journey to discovery that I have ever been upon.

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Associated to these was the fact that I had to be prepared to challenge myself and then to change.  I will not lie here cause it was not easy morphing into what was the beginning of realising the true potential within myself.  Admittedly the wheel is turning slowly.  And yet this is the most satisfying journey to discovery that  have ever been upon.

 

 

 

gap in your belief system

 

Allowing someone else to close the gap in your belief system For myself I learned early that second best was what I would have. Be content you are a girl. And then the feminist movement came along. Something that was already there was an understanding of equality. Feminism was about equality, therefore, absorbing that became a big part of my everyday existence.

Did the acceptance of being a second class citizen remain? Yes. Has this now changed? Yes. Is it hard to change? At this point of my life, I would say Why do you ask. Yesterday I would has started a Yes to this question. Why?

After a lunch and an afternoon spent with the most intriguing person I know, I was asked a simple question. Unfortunately. there was a personal internal disconnect occurring.  Mostly because of the Autism super awareness of new situations happening.  And that sure makes known huge shows any gap in your belief system.  Only it tends to take a while to process the information.

There was something not working. By not following through as I did in the first one [ which is working] and finding out what I had forgotten to do I was literally setting the thing up so I would fail again. That my friend is the acceptance of being a second class citizen once again. And that I finally got angry with.

What I am doing though may be classed as an expensive hobby. Well, I am on an Australian disability pension. Many people I know are using the smokes, the alcohol, illicit drugs or the gambling. None of these I do.
What I am doing is creating social worth that backs up the transitional changes in attitudes towards those with Autism.
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The bridge of knowledge had***************

With the things that have been brought to the front of mind, I no longer will accept second best. Besides, there is no one perfect. And strangely enough,, this post is not even written in the prescribed way. Just straight form the heart, the mind and my being. Which is funny in a way as being autistic why am I following everyone else’s path. The answer is simple their path works. People purchase the Digital Experts Academy product line through this prescribed way of affiliate marketing. I know that for a fact as I did.

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Mentoring is a mutually beneficial relationship AHELPING A LESS EXPERIENCED PERSON

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The next step is for me to share this post. Then go back and connect all the other posts into the Simple LeadCapture pages. Yes, I am about to hit the publish buttin on all of them. Now to close the gap between knowing they are not perfect and getting the job done. Knowing they are not yet alive is driving this determinaton. How can I drive traffic to anything that is not connected to a page or a post? Next after that is the connectons into the Autroresonder.

Looks to be a very interesting few weeks. Just to close the gap it only takes three days to obtain a passport you just pay extra for it. Tomorrow I am getting my photo ID taken. Asking friends to cosign the documents tomorrow evening.

Come with me on the alternative digital lifestyle that is happening through these blog posts. Now what a way to close the gap.

Close the gap

So many people are jumping on board the Autism boat that the figurative boat itself looks like it is imploding. With the aim to close the gap between those within the Autism Spectrum and the atypical person.

   Which makes sense. People such as Bill Gates and Richard Branson, have told their story years ago. The difference between you, me and those who have had the drive, focus and attention they so rightly  recognise as being theirs is just that. A mindset that focuses on their inner need first. Everything else then revolves around this need.  Therefore that is what they are getting. They live it, breath it and define it again and again. But you define yours too you say. That may be true within its self except for one thing. Maybe two. People who live their dream look back and know they were carried through from creating a circle of influence around them reflective of what it is they knew they were achieving. Then they set about to close the gap between their now and their “I have this situation.” under control attitude.Everything else is a want.  Wants are strategies created in order to achieve their singular few needs. Those needs complete their dream.  These wants are the are called stepping stones as what they want is

Everything else is a want.  Wants are strategies created in order to achieve their singular few needs. Those needs complete their dream.  These wants are the are called stepping stones as what they want is organised into doable actions that take then out of a comfort zone and into another level. The needs are the focus objectives. The dream is alive even before having sorted out the other parts.

Sometimes completing only one stepping stone at a time.  Other times as they complete on learning phase completely they smash that stepping stone into pieces.

One decade or two. The effort, word, blood sweat and swears carried them through. That primary focus was there all the time.

ALLOWING someone else to close the gap in your belief system

Throughout people’s lives, there are many influences. Every single person that I know has been raised with something they consider as a challenge to them during their childhood. Adulthood is nothing different. The sense of style may replicate those around you.  Yet you yearn for a different comfort zone within your dress type. Maybe wanting a different body style or clothing cloth. Rushing home just to change from a synthetic into nothing more than a silk or cotton throw on.
What would happen if your boss came along tomorrow and insisted you did something you know is not only against the law. But should you do this thing then that boss will simply say “I Know Nothin.” This happened to me in different scenarios. Each time the  Autism traits took over. Then a meltdown occurred.  Believe me, after a few you start to make a connection. It’s up to you now to close the gap.

Look into building an alternative digital lifestyle and close the gap
One and a half generations since finding blog the connections between writing posts online and building an alternative digital lifestyle still had not connected. http://susanlewismarketing.com/alternative-digital-lifestyle/  tidy URL this . The soon to released Autism As A Gift Campaign is now here. [1st Jan 2016]

Should you want more information on how to come into the fluid online parenting systems the reach out to me through susanlewis@autismasagift.com. In fact why not just close the gap between your needs and the bosses wants. Be proactive and let him have the link after you have experienced it firsthand first!

bridge of knowledge had

The bridge of knowledge had come close the gap finally. Note the Simple Lead Capture application is absolutely fantastic. Should you not hold a mindset of “shooting yourself in the foot”. It took me another twenty-four hours, and I realised again I was delaying things
. What I should have done was contact the Gold Level Digital Experts Academy mentoring coaches months ago. Have them assist me and then get going with building a list. Drive traffic though to the Digital Experts Academy list. And let the people decide if they wanted to participate in some of the best educational training and upskilling methods out there. My own decision was to work through to creating a business support syetme= that could be run anywhere in the world. Okay as long as there was an internet connection. Otherwise, there would just be massive uploads when and where there were the internet connections.

Instead, I quietly and firmly informed the other person of a financial restraint that I had. And I watch the pity within their eyes come forth for that split second On that Sunday Afternoon. Five minutes after walking away, the realization that I no longer had to be quiet had been removed just two days earlier on the Friday afternoon at four pm. The pattern brake was so new the feeling of surreally living between two worlds was happening again.

I sat down in a bus shelter with head in the palms of my hands and nearly cried. The pity within the other person eyes made sense now. Once again send best had come to the forefront. This had acceptance attitude to stop. At that moment in my life, a decision was made. You reading this post is reflective of that decision. When I was reviewing and replacing a vastly different scenarios within my mind. On my seventh birthday, something had caused me immense pain. In my right ear, I was told effectively to be quiet. And since that day I have kept quiet. Similataniusly accepting second best along the way.

That was very nearly seven times the seven years away. And soon is my eight times that seven years restarting within my own life again

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