This Posts Statement Is face Your Responsibilities while how to Save Parental Sanity
Realistically this post’s statement can be shot into trillions of pieces but it may just save Parental Sanity within this ever changing world.
Hang on a minute though. Take action through an inciteful understanding of just ” who and what are the High Functioning Autistics”
Where most people feel that Autism is an isolative condition. This is true. Guess what. I am a high Functioning Autistic. Yeah something that is akin to coming out of a closet has occurred. Yes! it has been painful. I found out what tears were.. Then faced my fears. You see I am in my mid-fifties. So around about when I was born the research was just a few people who were curious.
Now one of the traits of the spectrum that is very prevalent within me is speaking where fools and angels fear to tread!! This is who I am.
My question is based upon this: Reading online the other day about parental; groups participants chatting among themselves online how much dosage the Melatonin drug should be given. In it’s natural form the body releases Melatonin from the pituitary gland. Circadian rhythms are interconnecting with daily patterns. Also known as the sleep hormone. Have too little or too much and you have an irritable person who is sleep deprived. Or over asleep. Basically, someone who is climbing the walls and zipping around like a light enthused ping pon ball or a walking zombie.
However, the thing that most needs to happen is to remove the wi-fi, electricity [ battery life] and negative energy sources., We Autistics save parental sanity by learning to recede into our inner selves as a form of protection. Remove our protections and you leave our inner being exposed.
Excuse me please. Your child is experiencing something wonderfully unique to them. The dream stage. Leave them bee to be who they are.
Yes………… their spectrum tendencies will cause you fear. Probably as you too are either unrecognised on the spectrum parent as well or you have been diagnosed and subsequent brainwashed that you are not acceptable.
Stop being parenterally lazy. You are now destroying their creativity. Their focus renewal. Do you really want to feed your child’s inner child to some drug company’s profit line?
Grow up and action those responsibilities to yourself. You are responsible for the fun you had in considering that child. Now actions things positively. I know it will be hard. Together we had four children. Guess what all of them have. Now that was a power keg just waiting for the teenage years to come around.
So where does it leave you as a parent with at least one totally unpredictable person in your life. There has to be an income right. An income that can be worked through and below the rough times.
Yes we had this dilemma. Thirty years ago there were multilevel marketing pathways. However that meant that one of us would always have to be at home… or taking the children’s to a local park while the other presents the procedures, had a party plan presentation or even worse…wanted to go shopping for takeaways in a new town , new buildings and other smells that would trigger off somewhat erratic behaviour within the children. Fear was always present. Just because we did not know what it was we were actually dealing with.
Not so with the Six Figure Mentors. All that held us back all those years ago from sharing such wonderful products and a way of family life and such that held the family together … let’s just say that the appreciation of technology has grown. Having made contact with others who , like myself, are starting to be a predominant factor within one of my parents life, rest assured that when the time comes the basis will have been laid down.
So to you I offer this solution that is being actioned. Welcome abord to the Six Figure Mentors boot camp. To tell the truth looking back on going through this my own experience was that it became easier the more I just let things surface and deal with them. Far easier than having four children, and two parents, within a cramped house and a wet snowy, sleety day in a town city or the isolated mountain, when all of us were reacting within out own Autism Spectrum roller coaster ride!
As long as the internet is connected and the device on, even time out for a breather is creativity still appreciated. Definitely put to good productive use as in today’s society there are ways to give the children a park space out, while you with your IPad or phone carries on placing your latest blog post through the social media channels.
Many may think of this post as negatively charged. However, living within the Autism filled parental years I accept that that is the realism of this posts statement!